As some of you are aware, I have some insecurities when it comes to women. Well a couple months ago my girlfriend left her facebook logged on my computer. My fear got the better of me and I went through her private messages to find her talking dirty with one of her co-workers. I confronted her and she cried and apologized so much that I gave her a second chance. I told her she had to be open with me and withhold her privacy until I was comfortable again. She stayed the night at my house last night, and this morning my fear got a hold of me again. I went through her phone and at 2 am she was talking dirty to her co-worker again. I fell asleep around 1, so this happened shortly after I fell asleep. I ended our relationship this morning. I gave her a second chance, and she blew it. Yes I should have respected her privacy, but I also shouldn't have found anything like this. We were supposed to go apartment hunting today, so we could move in together. I'm completely crushed right now.