Discussion in 'OT Graveyard' started by integra00, Jan 24, 2005.
That's a terrible way to look at sex.
how do you figure? fr the most aprt, sex is recreational in todays youth. hell, it may have always been recreational, but everyone was too uptight to talk about it for all we know
IDB! That way she'll probably never want to see you again!
i agree with pope john. if you go through life looking at sex like that, you'll end up with a lot of shallow, meaningless relationships, and also probably some nice stds.
Haha, the first few times I nailed my woman she started crying.
Well, I don't have much room to talk, because I encourage him having sex with this girl. Regardless of love.
But the way you described it, like tallying up all your sex thinking it amounts to something... And if you don't have a certain amount you should regret it, that's absurd. I know I don't put that much importance on sex, and a lack of it will never inspire regret in my mind. Call me crazy.
nah it not that, its more of a if you oont then one day you might regret it, because you'll never know what it mighta been like. you could replace girl w/ anything else and thats kidna the way to look at it. you should experience as much as you can in life, especially when it comes to hot girl who want your man meat
Yeah, I totally agree, but it just sounds so blunt the way you put it. It demeans the sanctity of sex even more so than casual sex does.
I'm a believer of the monogamous sexual relationship. That's all I have to say on this subject.
yeah I understand what you mean. Those are some good words there. I guess that sux that this girl is not someone you find yourself interested in :-/
if you do it she will treat you wierd after
true. and she may also stalk you for life
at least youll always have someone to get some from
shit nail her get sum tang r u a man? id do it and then id do her again for shits n grins. or just find a non-virgin girl who loves to have sex, got me one of those ROWDY.
Exactly what I am thinking.
go ahead and do it, she wants to, im sure you want to. Go ahead and have a good night with her.
get away from her, waste your time with someone else.
i coudlnt see fuckin casually.
id suggest pull out the freind card because you obviously dont have love feelings for her.
youre just answering your own question.
i had the same situation w/ a girl.
i did her then i left for college.
now we're doing the friends with benefits thing and it was her idea.
at first she tried to talk to me all the time at school, then i said listen, you dont need to talk to me all the time, we're not going out. so she stopped doing it all the time but we're still better than friends.
now she comes up once in a while and we have ourselves a good time
Sounds pretty pathetic.
Ehh, I don't see how anyone could do that :-\
I figure the friends with benefits thing is pretty damn good. i mean if your not ready for all the things that go with a relationship you can still have most of the good things througha friends with benefits and none of the bad things.
ps: since my 1st girlfriend(and only) thats all i've had i've made it perfecly clear to each girl id ont want a relationship and they seem 100% cool with it. i did get one chic that did the stalking thing for a while jamsan can attest to that but thats cause she was a freak.
I don't know why you wouldn't want a relationship anyways? The best feeling is knowing you have a loving girlfriend. And, everything sex/sexual things are a lot better with a girlfriend.
ugh ... if you need a girlfriend to feel loved i call u the pussy. i have my parents and my friends and i know they'll always be their for me as for the girlfriend she has come and gone all the words said were in vain.
also your right everything is better with a girlfriend but everything thats bad is also infinitaly worse with a gf
I said there isn't anything better than the feeling of a girlfriend that loves you..Its better than my moms, grandmas, anyones...Its just better. I dont know where you came from with 'to feel loved' part, but maybe you should read a little better.
maybe i should have said the whole story but i was with her for about a year so its not like i just fucked her and left. but it was annoying after because she was on my case all the time. having a girlfriend is awesome but at the same time can suck specially at college.