What would u do if u controled my pants ?

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Do it ?

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  1. integra00

    integra00 Junior Member

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    Ok, theirs this girl that i've bin talkin to for past couple months. Were doing a friends with benefits best as i can figure. i pretty much told her i dont have love feelings for her or whatever and a relationship is pretty much out of the question. she said that was fine. so we fool around or whatever. Well she's a virgin and she wants to have sex with me.Now idk maybe its just me but i'm hesitating having sex with her because of the whole virginity thing and since were not in a relationship and its just for fun. What would you guys do in my position ? have sex with her and keep it casual or just pull out the friend card.
  2. ward

    ward is fucking awesome

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    depends on how ethical you are :p but shit ive never had a friend with benefits. sounds like a sweet deal...
  4. integra00

    integra00 Junior Member

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    i try to be ethical,i dont wanna lead her on. and i think maybe shes just a bit ignorant being a virgin she doesnt understand that sex wont make me love her. but i could totally be wrong and this chic may just want me for sex.
  5. ninefivezero

    ninefivezero infinite resolution

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    Sure, why not.

    I say better for her to loose it to a good guy like yourself than some jackass. It would be far less damaging to her, and you get some fun out of it. It will change your relationship a lot. I guess in the end it really depends on how you feel the girl will handle it.
  6. integra00

    integra00 Junior Member

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    Good point. 950, i dont really know how she'll handle it . thats what i'm worried about shes ultra cool. type of chic u can just hang out with and talk to


    ps: shes the chic next to me in the new years pic i posted .. if u guys wanted to get a visual.
  7. Pope John

    Pope John the most modest.

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    Tough call, If I were in your position, I'd make it very clear that sex is a solemn and beautiful thing, et ceterea et cetera. And just losing it to lose it takes away any meaning and will likely leave her with regrets. Especially if he has feelings for you.

    But 950 is right, better to you than some fucking douche at a bar who might leave her with a list of STDs
  8. integra00

    integra00 Junior Member

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    i actually told her all u said pope .. i said you should do it with somone special when u care about it. and i hinted at the fact i wouldnt do it with her. but then she got a lil more aggresive about it and kinda made it clear she wanted me to do it. sooo idk
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    I had a friend in this exact possition like a week or so ago. Anyways, my 2ยข: Do you see yourself going further (like relationship wise) with her? It might be a good idea to just ask her about it... find out her reasons, make sure that she's not going to come with "virgin baggage" and that it will stay as benificial friends. Make sure she knows that and that's sunken in pretty well. I'd say do it if that'll be the case but if she's gonna get super-attatched to you then I wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole.
  10. Pope John

    Pope John the most modest.

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    HIT IT! :evil:
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    So how come you dont have feelings for her? She like wants to have sex w/ you, you think she is cool, you like to talk to her, you like to hang out with her. Srsly whats wrong with you!!!!
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    do it.

    but be a good first time.
  13. Pope John

    Pope John the most modest.

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    Sometimes there are people in this world that you just don't find yourself interested in... No matter how much they may like you. Or vice versa. Good advice if you find yourself in love with someone who doesn't love you. Loving them won't make them love you back... :cry: :cry:
  14. Boltsky

    Boltsky Banned

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    How about pulling out the not having sex with someone because you don't love them card?
  15. ShabazKillaX

    ShabazKillaX I'm an F18 bro

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    Integra00: The customer is always right.
  16. Pope John

    Pope John the most modest.

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    For a good amount of young adults, love is not mandatory to have sex.
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    superman ?

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    be careful, the bitch might get attached as hell after the sex, but otherwise go bang that biatch
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    Boltsky Banned

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    And people wonder why our youth is so shitty.
  19. travisty08

    travisty08 Junior Member

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    it depends on how you feel about doing it with a virgin. the first time i had sex with my (now ex) gf we were both virgins, i was scared as hell that i was going to hurt her. if that doesn't bother you (it probably shouldn't, like scott said it's better for her to lose it to a good guy) i would say go for it. on top of that, there's the whole sex without love thing, which could get complicated, especially if this is you guy's first friends with benefits deal.
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    edit: oops, double post somehow, my bad.
  21. NoseMaster

    NoseMaster Horrible Person

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    Eh. In all fairness, their first time isn't that fun. You'd rip her open if you tried to do it any faster than a medium pace.
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    dude, if she wants to, of course do it. you're not forcing her into doing anything. win win.
  23. nidex

    nidex Hood Rich

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    I'd rail her, nice tight pussy. Except for the fact that she will be like, "OMG I LOVE YOU!!" after the fact.
  24. Pope John

    Pope John the most modest.

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    The cynics don't wonder.
  25. Jackalope

    Jackalope NNNNEEERRRRDDDSSSSS!!!!!!

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    haha i seriously thought this thread was about controlling your pants, or some kinda lame flash (like remember the "tell the chicken to do something" thing)

    anyway, my dad told me like this "Every girl that you turn down...that's one less girl you have done." think about it. you could be on your death bed and be like, dammit i wish I had fucked just one more fine bitch....oh wait, i remember, I coulda bui I was a dumbass and turned her down. FUCK. oh well might as well kill my dumbass self now..."

    anyway, moral of the story is: fuckin do it.