Kids: When did you start having them or do you plan to have them?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by Commissar Smersh, Jan 7, 2010.

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Kids?

  1. Had my first one when I was younger than 21.

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  2. Plan to have mine before I turn 21.

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  3. Had my first between 21 and 25

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  4. Plan to have mine between 21 and 25.

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  5. Had my first between 25 and 30

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  6. Plan to have mine between 25 and 30.

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  7. Had my first after 30.

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  8. Plan to have mine after or around 30.

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    32.6%
  9. Didn't get around to having kids.

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  10. Don't want to have kids.

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    23.9%
  1. Commissar Smersh

    Commissar Smersh 2020 Staff Member

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    Spurred my surprise that GRP and Crowchaser have kids and are around my age. Granted I know that it's not uncommon but it still rocked my fragile T3D world. :(

    Oh and I voted plan to have them around or after 30.
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    22 for me.
  3. Chainblade

    Chainblade Junior Member

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    I don't have any plans. Doesn't mean I don't want any. But I preferably want to marry the person I'm going to have kids with. And considering I'm single, I doubt that's happening for a while.
  4. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    The first one squirted out when I was 20. The second when I was 30. I'm done now, barring a knock at the door.
  5. SoulAssassin

    SoulAssassin Car Ramrod

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    32 for me. i'm oooooold
  6. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    Use condoms guys! My first when I was 16 :eek:. My last when I was 35.
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    Condoms are for pussies.

    :D
  8. Bear

    Bear Hoot!

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    Would like to have one in my late 20s
  9. nidex

    nidex Hood Rich

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    I'd like to have one in my late 20's as well.
  10. Lord Kain

    Lord Kain Keeper of the Timeline Staff Member

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    I tought I had one like now, but the divorce changed a lot of things.

    Now I don't know if I will have any. Depends on a lot of things.
  11. gB dAvId x

    gB dAvId x thats what she said

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    Not sure yet I would want any, but if i did it would be around 30... I have 6 years to find the one, i have time.

    And condoms are for pussies, lol (literally :p)
  12. Lord Kain

    Lord Kain Keeper of the Timeline Staff Member

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    .. find the one, and keep her with you :)

    Alas, for me, it broke up after 5 years. So at 25, I was happy to have found "the one".
  13. ivanolo

    ivanolo Guest

    No kids for me.
  14. CroweBaby

    CroweBaby Guest

    I picked 25 - 30, if it happens before or after that, whatever. I want to be married and financially stable before I pop one out or adopt one, but I know life never goes as planned..
  15. Lord Kain

    Lord Kain Keeper of the Timeline Staff Member

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    And not to be a cockblock, but you told us previously that you are on various medications. Frankly, you'll need to ween-off on a lot of them to have a baby securely.

    It's one of the reasons I don't want a kid with my current GF right now. She could do it, but I don't like her giving birth to a child already on many meds.

    Maybe it's just me, but I fear the "crack baby effect"
  16. j0k3r

    j0k3r El Chupacabra

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    I had my first when I was 24. I am having my last this year and I will be 32. Which means I will be done paying for college when I am 50 and I can just live it up after sending all my kids away.
  17. gB dAvId x

    gB dAvId x thats what she said

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    Lol. couldn't have said it better! Not to rag on you, but shouldn't you be job hunting if you want to be financially stable and even have a job... (refering to crowebaby)?
  18. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    real men dont use rubbers.


    wow, yea.. the kids topic again. ive already said my piece about me having/wanting kids before in another thread. I need to get started though, dont wanna raise a 15yo at the age of 60, that would be a nightmare.

    one thing that bothers me. People are always, constantly asking me how come i dont have kids. Dunno if thats a compliment or if theyre trying to say somethings wrong with me.. like.. im 27 and im "supposed" to have kids by now. Granted, i do believe and support early age parenting, but damn... seems like everyone has steered towards that intellect rather than "get married and have kids". "How come you arent married" I get that alot too.. After a while, all that starts to get to you.

    I'll have kids when i have kids.. im not planning on it, nor do i wanna say i DONT want kids.. it'll happen when it happens in "marriage" or not.

    Ive also noticed that when someone says "I never want kids".. the next week theyre pregnant. Seems like the people that DO want kids, cant have them..
  19. MSP

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    ^^^ They're asking you because you fuck black girls, and they all squirt out 4 kids by the time they turn 20. :D
  20. gB dAvId x

    gB dAvId x thats what she said

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    Dude!!! WTF, seriously. Everyones lives are different. Just because your 27 doesn't mean your "supposed" to be having kids by now. My sister turned 27 last year and got married last year and my brother-in-law is 32. the time to have kids is whenever the time is right for you. Or whenever you have sex and just screw around, but basically I believe you can control that with condoms and BC.
  21. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    msp. MSP. lmao.

    gb, i know right!? its hard to convince people to realize we are all on a different schedule. some people are just late bloomers, like myself.. but whatevs.

    my life will be the beginning of idiocracy (the intelligent white couple)
  22. 86mcss

    86mcss Devouring your Soul

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    I am 27 and having my first in a couple months. I am so excited! :D
  23. CroweBaby

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    Taking in to consideration you don't know my medical history, or really anything about me but what I have told you, I won't be offended. I'm not on THAT much medication. I'm prescribed medicine, but the amount I take is minimal and as needed. The ones I need to take daily, I take daily (which is really only about one) the rest I take when I ABSOLUTELY can't stand not to take them. I hate taking pills and I'm very careful and wary of them. :)

    Once Will and I get married and actually decide to have a kid, we will be financially set and that's what I meant, financially set as a family. My job would simply be the back up plan that goes to savings and/or play money. (Still looking for a job, and trying to get this crochet business to take off from the ground)

    :) Thanks for your concern though.(I'm not being facetious)
  24. Mr. Ali

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  25. Bear

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    While I said late 20s, I know I'll be more ready once I'm done with school and feel that I'm in a good paying career. I feel a few years from both to be honest and 28-30 seems like a good age.