Karma sucks

Discussion in 'OT Graveyard' started by nidex, Nov 20, 2006.

  1. nidex

    nidex Hood Rich

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    My ex-girlfriend called me last night after I haven't talked to her in how long I don't even know. I didn't answer, but I got a message, and long story short is that she's pregnant, the guy booked, she has no money, and doesn't know what to do.. now she's begging for my friendship. Funny how in the past she wanted nothing to do with me. Karma's a bitch!

    The thing is.. should I try and give advice/help, or tell her to fuck herself?
  2. Lord Kain

    Lord Kain Keeper of the Timeline Staff Member

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    Oh.. tough one.

    1st: Do you want to talk to her? If not, second choice( in a "polite" way is best)

    If you do want to talk to her, I suggest to pre-establish your limits: Frequency of the talks, your involvement.

    If she goes overboard, you can tell her that she exceeded your limits. If she freaks out, you can rely on option 2
  3. Commissar Smersh

    Commissar Smersh 2020 Staff Member

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    No.

    She'll be a fair weather friend at best. Chances are something in her head clicked that you were stable and reliable and would be able to help her out. However, if you think this isn't the case and do want to reestablish contact, Lord Kain had some pretty decent advice. Oh. If you do meet up with her, have a get-out plan/phone call of some sort or bring a friend.
  4. smirnoff

    smirnoff Curmudgeon

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    Tell her to deal with her own problems.
  5. Lazaredz

    Lazaredz Conspiracy of One

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    Just ignore the message/phone call. She will get the hint after a few tries.
  6. ivanolo

    ivanolo Guest

    My suggestion: Tell her to "get the fuck away!"
  7. Sushi 3

    Sushi 3 New Member

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    Fuck the shit out of her. Raw; with no condom. She can't get any more pregnant. Otherwise, run away. You'll end up babysitting friday nights while she goes to the bar and gets plastered.
  8. nidex

    nidex Hood Rich

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    Long story short: I called her back, she told me the story, I laughed at her, she cried, I said I told you so, now she wants to be friends, I told her if she calls back I probably won't answer.
  9. Lord Kain

    Lord Kain Keeper of the Timeline Staff Member

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    ok, you've handled it the Nidex way!

    but I'm more curious about the reason WHY she wants to be friends now... have you asked her that?
  10. MovingTarget

    MovingTarget New Member

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    well, that was a mature way to handle it....but I would imagine still effective.....

    Good job!?!
  11. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    Run, don't walk from that situation. You'll always believe you were 'used' and you don't, repeat don't want to be raising someone else's kid. In some states, you'd be the one paying the support on another guys kid when all went south. Seriously, don't put yourself in a no-win situation.
  12. Lazaredz

    Lazaredz Conspiracy of One

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    LOL ... oh man ... good one. :)
  13. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    be polite about "how busy you are now"
    even though karma is a bitch and deep down it feels good inside to you, you need to be a little nice to her.. Her head is already fucked up enough, you dont wanna be the one to throw her off into the deep end.

    just tell her how busy you are and how your having to deal with your own complications.. you might be lying but its better than "fuck off bitch i hope you fall down stairs"

    EDIT: nevermind youve already made her cry.
  14. MaesterB

    MaesterB King of the Wicker People

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    God...this is such a similar situation. I've had two ex-gf's contact me after they get knocked up and the guy runs away. Only, in one of the cases, she wanted me back.

    In both of those cases, I told them to forget it. You want to chat every once in awhile on MSN when I'm there, fine. Don't call.
  15. akashaheart

    akashaheart THE LIGHT

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    Ok From a woman I wouldnt have called her. Remember u didnt wanna have nuhtin 2 do with me so dont call me now SHYT the min these heffas get pegnant or dumped then they remember the good guy they had all along.LEt Karma deal with that ass and U keep on steppin your way.
  16. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    I would have simply ignored her, but that works. The dumb bitch didn't want you around until she needed you, and she's got someone elses bun in the oven? I would direct her to Planned Parenthood if she calls again.
  17. SmokeDogg

    SmokeDogg New Member

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    I vote "go fuck yourself"
  18. Nothing.

    Nothing. G-Riot

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    Wow...Wow...I'd fuck her.
  19. Mr. Ali

    Mr. Ali Junior Member

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    preggy sex ftw!
  20. offroadin

    offroadin New Member

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    I can't understand that jibberish. Try the spellchecker?
  21. Lord Kain

    Lord Kain Keeper of the Timeline Staff Member

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    yea! you prolly have some preggy pr0n somewhere :)
  22. akashaheart

    akashaheart THE LIGHT

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    Um not to be rude or anything But I DID not know this was English class.I am at home on the net having fun in a forum. Not in public or at a place of buisness. So wtf I i have to use spell checker for what. If you can not understand what im saying go on to the next topic damn
  23. Lord Kain

    Lord Kain Keeper of the Timeline Staff Member

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    yea.. don't mind it if the grammar nazi knocks on your door.

    GOG is waaay worse that that and we still <3 him.
  24. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    Yeah, but GOG has vision problems and erectile dysfunction, to be fair... :p
  25. Lord Kain

    Lord Kain Keeper of the Timeline Staff Member

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    caused by testicular anthrax?

    because I wasn't aware of the second part.