How private are you about Tweak?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by Mince, May 24, 2010.

  1. Mince

    Mince Never Dice, Always Mince!

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    So Crowbaby and Will's recent breakup got me thinking about a topic. Have you or will you ever tell your girlfriend / boyfriend about Tweak?

    I ask because throughout the years I have been here, I have NEVER told ANY of my girlfriend(s) about this site. Not that I have something to hide but to me, Tweak is an escape and a private "abode" ... per se. Somewhere that will always be here (knock on wood) when a girl comes and goes. Shoot... I've known some people here longer than some of the people I usually hangout with in real life.

    Anyone else feel like that? I think when and if I get married, I'll probably share Tweak... but for now, all mine!
  2. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    Will broke up with Crowbaby? Ha, I missed that one somehow.

    I don't keep the site a secret per se, but I would throw a royal fit if my wife or daughter signed up or lurked. I speak freely here, unlike on a site like Facebook, and would have to censor myself. So I totally see what you mean.
  3. -=Lurker=-

    -=Lurker=- **BANNED**

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  4. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    i don't keep it too much of a private issue. It's nice to have a place to go to that's all mine, but it's not a taboo per se'.
  5. CroweBaby

    CroweBaby Guest

    I don't think I would keep it a secret, because I'm not a secret type of person. Yes Will broke up with me, but I have been thinking about it for a long time. I'm not in love with him anymore and I can't make him happy, I just didn't want to hurt him. And Seven, I'd rather slit my wrist love :D
  6. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    That is something I wouldn't care to see :wink:
    I just hate to know that people i care about are going through what i've gone through too many times.
  7. rocadelpunk

    rocadelpunk Junior Member

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    They wouldn't care and moreover they'd be too busy in the kitchen
  8. GRP

    GRP oh snap

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    hahaha

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    It's private. If she sees me on it, I just say it's the internets. You know how it is.
  9. CroweBaby

    CroweBaby Guest

    C'est la vie. There are bigger better things in store for me :)
  10. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    uh. when did crowe and will breakup.. wtf.

    yes i keep this place super private. i actually google my name and theres one result coming from this place that i want removed. I dont care if friends/gfs find out about me through tweak, but i dont want family knowing my business on here.
    ive probably had a few stalkers secretly watching me on these boards
  11. Chainblade

    Chainblade Junior Member

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    I've talked about the people or posts on this board in the past to my g/f or friends but I don't go out of my way to tell people about it. I wouldn't really care if my g/f signed up here.
  12. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    That sucks. And not to pour salt in any wounds, but it always cracks me up when someone recently dumped talks about how they were on the verge of dumping the other person first but didn't for whatever reason. I've only been dumped once and I can tell you, it was 100% her idea and a total surprise. I was totally in love with her and even after 15 years I can't say I'm completely over it. /thread jack

    ^^^See, I couldn't write that sort of thing in my wife was lurking here. Or more to the point, I would continue to post such things and she would be upset all the time.
  13. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    i was in love once... .. ONCE.
  14. travisty08

    travisty08 Junior Member

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    if there's something worthwhile on t3d i show my friends, i've had to explain t3d to most of my gfs when my t3d ss gift came in the mail each year. i see no reason to keep it private.
  15. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    i would prefer a girl thats interested in me to google my name and stumble upon this place before she really tries to get to know me.
    turning over this rock will forewarn her of whats to come and expect.
  16. mattdev

    mattdev liberal crybaby

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    I haven't told the girlfriend about this site, but she unknowingly met both Dan and Puffer. Hah!
  17. ninefivezero

    ninefivezero infinite resolution

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    You all know my story. My girlfriend at the time was here as a regular, because well, she enjoyed it, and hell, how could I "hide" the forum when it's the place I go to so regularly on the computer? It was never a problem.

    I send links to my picture threads to friends and family all the time.
  18. tweakmonkey

    tweakmonkey Webmaster Staff Member

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    I've told all my GFs about it, but only two ever signed up, and only one posted more than once. The others just didn't care. :D Then again I try not to air all my private life here and most of everything is pretty well publicized anyway.
  19. czechrboard tassia

    czechrboard tassia Likes gay people.

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    well, tremblay introduced me originally.

    tay knows about the site and sometimes looks over my shoulder when i'm on, but i'm pretty sure he doesn't lurk. although, i am constantly logged in on his comp, so idk. *shrug* would I want my parents or boss to find me here? probably not, but it's not like it'd be the end of the world.
  20. Lord Kain

    Lord Kain Keeper of the Timeline Staff Member

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    ah wtf another breakup!!!

    well, life goes on!
  21. CroweBaby

    CroweBaby Guest

    I really was MSP, I just didn't know what I was going to do. But luckily enough, I landed back on my feet and I'm accomplishing a lot more in two weeks than I did in two years.
  22. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    ^^ so what happened, you got caught with nameless?

    did you get kicked out of the house or is it yours? no boat trip pics? wtf.
  23. rocadelpunk

    rocadelpunk Junior Member

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    Well, clearly Mr. Ali could never show a g/f his posts...Unless she's into that kind of thing.
  24. hans5849

    hans5849 Serious as a heart attack

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    I don' say shit about this site to anyone I know.
  25. randomtask

    randomtask Chimp.

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    I have been with my gf for over 6 years, never told her about this place, no idea though if she has any idea.

    It isn't like this is some sort of pornographic forum to keep a secret.. so I guess it wouldn't matter, but you can't help but feel you would say things here, as you would do when with 'the boys' without the old ball and chain around :p