Emo Rambling

Discussion in 'OT Graveyard' started by NoseMaster, Jan 12, 2005.

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Should I get rid of her?

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  2. No

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  3. *shrug* read my post

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  1. Boltsky

    Boltsky Banned

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    According to that, I should make an investment in a business partner ship where I might have the need to constantly question my partner's honesty.
  2. superman

    superman ?

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    for once i agree with boltsky
  3. FFO Boomstick

    FFO Boomstick The Dude

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    I know I've told you this already dude, but again...if you find yourself questioning the worth and value of your relationship, usually it means that its not worth it. If it were, you wouldnt be questioning it. But that doesnt mean that you shouldnt rethink things again, just for the hell of it. Just be sure that whatever position you take, you dont backdown from it.
  4. travisty08

    travisty08 Junior Member

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    i can kind of relate to your story. i had a beautiful girlfriend, i thought that i couldn't do any better, and i would be happier with her than without her; i wouldn't find anyone else. so, i put up with her being a bitch on and off for two years. sure, it was good, but it wasn't worth putting myself through all that shit. i had kind of a self esteem problem like it sounds like you have, but you just gotta know that you'll get other girls. i have. with experience come confidence. it sounds like you are really uncomfortable with her hanging out with this guy, so i would say that it's not worth it to make yourself uncomfortable fo who knows how long just becuase you don't think you can do better. the best thing that could happen is that you'd be bummed out and insecure all the time. the worst that could happen is she'd leave you for the other guy.
  5. NoseMaster

    NoseMaster Horrible Person

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    I just woke up so I'm not going to seriously respond to this, but nice WMob reference.
  6. travisty08

    travisty08 Junior Member

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    hey, tommy's back. cool.
  7. tex

    tex jive turkey

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    s-t-a-l-k-e-r
    sorry, i feel the need to try and knock you from your online throne in any way i can :D

    sweet, tommy is back.


    I think that you need to get her away from the guy, thats fucked up, its not going to do any good in any way, get it ended now. Get more secure about her being around other guys though, thats not something you can stop.
  8. Boltsky

    Boltsky Banned

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    I just came up with an ingenious idea. Make her pregnant.
  9. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    GOD NOOOOOOO! The gene pool already needs a chlorine shock... ;)
  10. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    I've read all the responses to your topic and there are some good points made. The real issue is your feelings and how they affect you. First, feelings are not facts, second, feelings are not right or wrong....they just are.
    People have 'basic natures' and it sonds like the trait that is intollerable to
    you is the one she has of needing the attention that being overly friendly
    to other guys gets her. It isn't that you are wrong or she is wrong, what you need to deal with is how that behavior causes you pain. She can not change her basic nature by anything you can do....that would be like expecting a cat to act like a pet bunny....it aint'a gonna happen. So, where's that leave you? It'll probably leave you trying to change her and failing. If you can't handle the feelings brought about by any of her behaviors, then the decission is your's and not hers. It's my opinion that a truely viable relationship needs to be based on trust and respect. It apears to me that both of you are lacking to one degree or another in these areas that are so important to a successful relationship. You can't trust her and she doesn't seem to be able to respect your feelings.
    Forget about what seems to be right or wrong. The focal point of your problem is how you feel. No one else has to feel your feeling, only you.
    If the feelings that you feel when she's doing her buddy-buddy trip with
    people of the male gender isn't something you can handle, then no amount of mental masturbation is going to make it acceptable to you.
    Becoming secure and trusting of situations like that takes a shitload of time....a shitload! Most are not able to achieve sufficient change in a lifetime. So, if a situation is unacceptable then you have the responsibility
    to make up your own mind and make a decission. After all, she isn't the one with a problem, it seems she likes everything as they are.
  11. ShabazKillaX

    ShabazKillaX I'm an F18 bro

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    ^^^ Whoa....Its Dr. Phil ^^^
  12. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    ^^^doctorate from the School of Hard Knocks^^^
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    guy New Member

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    nidex Hood Rich

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    RONDA BRX?!?!
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    korber New Member

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    I despise Dr. Phil, hes a dumb fuck.

    Mistawiskas > Dr. Phil
  16. ShabazKillaX

    ShabazKillaX I'm an F18 bro

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    Every man should hate Dr. Phil.
  17. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    I agree. He's right up there with dear Abby.
  18. hans5849

    hans5849 Serious as a heart attack

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    i feel sorry for the guys who are dragged on Dr. Phil. I could just see my family on there "your feeling are the problem. No Your blaitant homosexuality is you flamer, shut up and grow some balls. *cursing"
  19. NoseMaster

    NoseMaster Horrible Person

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    Well, it looks like I'm still with her. I really can't imagine my life without her. Anyways, she's still telling him to never speak to him again tomorrow.

    BTW, I left out something. Everytime he'd mention something about liking her, she'd remind him of how much she loves me. Hmph.

    And might I add, college blows.
  20. travisty08

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    edit: nm i didn't read the post correctly....ignore this. it's late, i've got insomnia, i'm out of it.
  21. nidex

    nidex Hood Rich

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    *chanting* P-U-S-S-Y
    DITCH THE BITCH!
  22. Nothing.

    Nothing. G-Riot

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    I dont like her. Never did. But, I know how you're. The whole life with Megan...Knowing you have a lot of love for her, but she has been doing this a lot. Either A) Give it a break for a little while, letting her know youre serious. or B) Do the same thing that has been happening. I personally don't think you can stop this.
  23. NoseMaster

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    Yeah, reminds me of Final Fantasy X. With Sin. ...Jesus christ, I am a fucking dork.

    PS Denial is stronger than most people give it credit
  24. nidex

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    Yeah. And on top of that, Megan's ugly.
  25. NoseMaster

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    I don't think so. And her ass isn't bigger then the rest of her body either :X. She is also considerably more intelligent than Erica, eh.