An ex-g/f txt'd me last night

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  1. MaesterB

    MaesterB King of the Wicker People

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    Little background: My ex-g/f I went out with for a year, broke up, got back together and moved in for a year (most unhappy year of my life). Then broke up again, shortly after that, met my wife, and have been with her for 6 or so years. Talked to my ex ONCE in a blue moon, either by chance meeting in a mall, or on facebook. Nothing major.

    So, my wife and I are watching TV last night, and out of nowhere, I get a flurry of text messages. It's from my ex-g/f (who NEVER txt'd me until last night). She's going on about how she needs some advice and I'm the only person that really knows her...blah blah blah...then she asks if I'm on the road or at home.

    Instantly, said WTF, and showed my wife. I then basically told my ex that I knew her to be a good person when I knew her. That was that.

    Wow...was my wife pissed not at me but at the ex for coming out left field and expecting a shoulder to cry on, when that shoulder has NOT been available for YEARS.

    I then facebooked my ex this morning, re-iterating the fact that whatever is wrong, shit happens, deal with it, and that it's not acceptable she just txt's me out of nowhere when realistically, I've got nothing to do with her life directly.

    There's that possible affair taken care of (my wife's words, not mine).
  2. Bear

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    You kept yourself open to communication by having her on Facebook...That's not so "left field" to me.

    At least you dodged that bullet. I wouldn't have an ex on Facebook, honestly.
  3. MaesterB

    MaesterB King of the Wicker People

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    I have over 200 friends on facebook, 90% I do not talk to. For her to text me is totally out of left field.

    Last time I message my ex was when her brother committed suicide (over a month ago) offering my condolences. If that's an invitation for her to cry on my shoulder...then there's wires crossed.
  4. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    Delete her on Facebook, ask her to never call / text you again, etc. The wife was right to be pissed, it's just not appropriate to maintain any contact with her at all.
  5. Chainblade

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    ya you should delete her on facebook, delete her number, and any other contact. There just is no point, especially being married. There is no reason for you to talk to her and the only reason she is going to talk to you is to be selfish.

    I've had to do this in the past myself. It might be a hard thing to do at first but just do it. She brings no value to your life and is just extra drama.
  6. HEAVY-D

    HEAVY-D Eh?!

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    You did nothing wrong, it's all about her and her problems. Even if you delete her from your Facebook she can still contact you if she wants. She is very selfish and could cause you problems not of your own making.

    Are people taking Facebook that seriously? Like you MaesterB Facebook is not that important in my life.
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    Oh the joys of marriage. :D
  8. MaesterB

    MaesterB King of the Wicker People

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    She was still left over on my Live Messenger contacts...yikes.

    Yeah...drama is not necessary from an outside source like that. I agree that facebook is just another way to harass me when she wants. She's been deleted.

    It won't be hard...I went years without talking to her, and then she popped up out of blue on something (maybe it was a party that her and I have a mutual friend).

    Anyways, case is closed, done and done. Another insert into this chapter of my life.
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    ward is fucking awesome

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  11. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    No doubt. Ex girlfriend = we get to see the pics of you sticking it in her ass. :)
  12. Caucasian Hammer

    Caucasian Hammer Jesus, Man.

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  13. MaesterB

    MaesterB King of the Wicker People

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    I threw away the nude polaroids of her when she looked better. Sorry boys.

    She's gained weight and had a kid...so she's not looking as good as she once did.

    Yet my wife, who's had three kids in the last 4 years, looks far better.
  14. HEAVY-D

    HEAVY-D Eh?!

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    Better suck up to the wife and good. :p
  15. nidex

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    You seem to have quite the issue with ex's and such. I occasionally get texts from my ex's, I just delete them and don't reply, and don't say anything about it. However if my girl asks if she(one in particular) has texted me I don't lie about it, I just tell her what it said and that I deleted it. She doesn't get pissed and it all works out just peachy.