Little background: My ex-g/f I went out with for a year, broke up, got back together and moved in for a year (most unhappy year of my life). Then broke up again, shortly after that, met my wife, and have been with her for 6 or so years. Talked to my ex ONCE in a blue moon, either by chance meeting in a mall, or on facebook. Nothing major. So, my wife and I are watching TV last night, and out of nowhere, I get a flurry of text messages. It's from my ex-g/f (who NEVER txt'd me until last night). She's going on about how she needs some advice and I'm the only person that really knows her...blah blah blah...then she asks if I'm on the road or at home. Instantly, said WTF, and showed my wife. I then basically told my ex that I knew her to be a good person when I knew her. That was that. Wow...was my wife pissed not at me but at the ex for coming out left field and expecting a shoulder to cry on, when that shoulder has NOT been available for YEARS. I then facebooked my ex this morning, re-iterating the fact that whatever is wrong, shit happens, deal with it, and that it's not acceptable she just txt's me out of nowhere when realistically, I've got nothing to do with her life directly. There's that possible affair taken care of (my wife's words, not mine).